Purposed Connection

Agreement

2011-07-20T08:00:00.002-05:00

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Living by Agreement

2011-07-17T16:44:00.009-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group.The truth is agreement is the most important thought we should have each day. For self centered human beings, agreement seems impossible. I want to offer several thoughts to challenge you this week as you seek to achieve agreement with the world around you.Ask & Listen...Respect & Recognize...Communicate & Lead...Compromise

Coincidences?

2011-07-13T08:00:00.006-05:00

Stay Awake!

2011-07-10T15:40:00.010-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. It has been sometime since I have said anything about our human tendency to sleepwalk. In my blog this week, I have written about the philosophical delusion of coincidence. It is so easy to declare things to be coincidental that carry real potential, if not, purpose. So, I want to challenge you this week to stay

Freedom?

2011-07-06T08:00:00.001-05:00

This week marks the beginning of the second half of the calendar year. It began for many of us with a day of worship and then many of us launched into the week with a holiday. It was "Independence Day", July 4th. It happens every year. This year, I want to give it new and more personal meaning. In fact, I want it to be contemporary to my life and to my year. I want to move into the second

2011-07-04T16:20:00.001-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk a Purposed Connection podcast by the Tappe Group. This country has been built upon revolution. Actively changing things we see are not working for us is our heritage. I want to challenge you with a few things I believe that I believe need to be included even if I am the only revolutionary involved. This is your official invitation to join me. I intend to think for

Impressions

2011-06-29T08:00:00.000-05:00

Making an impression is not an option. You will make one. You are making one. Is it the impression you intend to make? Being certain of your answer to that question is the key to any success you might hope to achieve. You never have a second chance to make a first impression so the one you are making had best be with great intention.Knowing the people in your world is critical to making the

Dress to Communicate

2011-06-26T17:14:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Studies show that the vast majority of what we communicate is non-verbal in nature. In this podcast I want to discuss the role of dress, "what you choose to wear", and the part it plays in what you communicate.Dress for Yourself...Dress to Connect...Dress to Impress...Dress to Respect...Dress on Purpose...

2011-06-20T11:45:00.002-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week Allen spends time on what he believes will be necessary for us in this new beginning:Give thanks for opportunity!Choose to do something now!Get connected and stay connected!Learn something!Make others better! Podcast Powered By Podbean To have this weekly podcast automatically

Don't Wait!

2011-06-19T20:24:00.005-05:00

Don't wait for life to happen to you. Don't wait for opportunity to come your way. Just don't wait. Passivity is a failed strategy in today's world. Taking action is the most important choice you could make for yourself. So, what is stopping you? Fear is probably the most apparent answer. You are afraid of what you have not experienced. You are afraid of failure. You may be afraid of

Where Does It All Begin?

2011-06-15T08:00:00.001-05:00

If it all begins with me, it ends with me. If it begins with God, then it ends with Him. If communication begins with me, it will produce confusion. If it begins with God, it will create relationship. If love begins with me, it will have strings attached. If it begins with God, it will be unconditional. If life begins with me, it will be terminal. If it begins with God,

How do we begin?

2011-06-12T17:43:00.004-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. So, where do you begin, Allen approaches this question this week with practical disciplines:Begin each day by sleeping well the night before.Wake up on purpose.Begin with the really important things.Get accountable.Make someone else successfulPrepare and practiceCreate new credentialsManage upRecognize successExamine and

Hang On to the Moments

2011-05-30T13:08:00.007-05:00

I realize today is Memorial Day and it is a day set aside for honoring our military men and women and I am thankful for the the thoughtfulness of this country. It is particularly important for the families of those serving this country to realize their national sacrifice is recognized and appreciated. At the same time, I believe it is a day to stop and remember period. Reflection is a good

2011-05-30T08:22:00.002-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Here is the truth. If you continue to do what you have always done while the context you're faceing sis significantly changing and expect to somehow get the same result, now that really is insanity. Changed context requires and adjusted response. Changes in others requires recognized adjustment. Changes in

Who Said?

2011-05-23T07:45:00.005-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week Allen's blog will be a reflection upon "positive" psychology through the eyes and mind of Martin Selgman and his new book, flourish. This week he shares with you some insights he has experienced this week. Podcast Powered By PodbeanTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the

A Day of Honor

2011-05-08T18:06:00.005-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Today is Mother's Day. Today as a nation, we pause to recognize and celebrate our mothers. This week Allen spends time recognizing lessons to be learned from this day with regard to giving honor to whom honor is due.RememberRecognizeRehearseRelateResistReturn Podcast Powered By Podbean To

Why Is It So Hard To Be Where You Are?

2011-05-04T08:00:00.000-05:00

Staying present is not an easy thing to do. Staying in the moment is even harder. I think it is important to know yourself well enough to understand the challenge. Relationships depend upon it. Maximizing the opportunities of life require it. Unfortunately, it is not natural for you to pay attention. It is something you have to do on purpose. If you don't approach life with intention it

How Ready are You?

2011-05-01T17:41:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Take a deep breath, and ask yourself this question, "Are you ready to live this day?" Here are a few thoughts for this week:Be awareBe alertBe activeBe amazedBe approachable Podcast Powered By Podbean To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and

Know Yourself

2011-04-27T08:00:00.000-05:00

Life is all about relationships. For the most part, I believe people are conscious of how important relationship to people is to their quality of life but how about the relationship they have with themselves? How good a friend are you to yourself? How well do you treat you? I believe many, if not most, people live unconscious of even having an active relationship with themselves. On the

Take Care of Yourself

2011-04-24T15:53:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week Allen's focus is upon "relational" examination. This week he challenges you to examine yourself relationally.How objective are you about you?How do you define you?How committed are you to you?How aware of you, are you? Podcast Powered By Podbean To have this weekly podcast

Stay Ahead of the Game

2011-04-19T22:29:00.003-05:00

There is something about staying on top of things that just makes life easier. Somehow, life seems to just look better when you are not playing from behind. It seems to me, however, it is more natural to be playing catch up. For some, procrastination is a lifestyle. Putting things off is a way of life. For others, it just seems to happen. I believe there are reasons why for staying ahead

Managing Failure

2011-04-11T00:54:00.001-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Podcast Powered By Podbean To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power Search "Tappe talk" and then subscribe.To comment on this blog, click on the COMMENTS link located directly below. I would love to hear your thoughts!

Acceptance

2011-04-06T08:00:00.001-05:00

Acceptance is an interesting word. It actually represents the presence of a vulnerable condition. Acceptance means you are moving forward with reason outside of yourself. For instance to say, "I accept that to be true," doesn't necessarily mean it is true. It just means you have made the choice to accept it as truth for yourself because of something you have been told or read. Many things we

Choose Carefully

2011-04-03T13:44:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. The purpose of this podcast is to challenge you to take greater responsibility for what you choose to accept.Take Responsibility for Things You Believe...Think for Yourself...Keep Learning...Stay Humble... Podcast Powered By Podbean To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3

Be Extravagant!

2011-03-30T08:00:00.000-05:00

Recently, I have experienced the receiving side of extravagance. It has been something I have received throughout my life but this time I have experienced it through my granddaughter. She is headed to Kenya this summer to work with orphans who are hearing impaired. She has achieved a level of mastery in signing and so she believes she is on a mission she was born to experience. The only

Make Somebody's Day

2011-03-27T14:53:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. There is a human tendency to be self-centered. In fact, it is human nature. So, when you get outside of yourself, it is really counter cultural. Allen shares a few thoughts this week on how the world changes for you when you get outside of yourself long enough to make someone's day.It Defeats DepressionIt Makes a

Play Ball!

2011-03-23T08:00:00.000-05:00

Opening day is just around the corner. Pre-season is coming to an end. America's national pastime is about to begin a new season. My grandson is reaching for his ball and bat. He has his batting helmet on and his batting gloves in hand. There is something fresh and unique about this time of the year. The cold days of winter are over and the dog days of summer have yet to begin. Spring time

It Is Time!

2011-03-20T15:01:00.006-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. We have had a lot of things to distract us but a sense of freshness is in the air. So, here are a few suggestions for going forward...Get Your Mind Right.ReconnectCheck Your CredentialsAsk More. Talk Less.Reinvent Yourself. Podcast Powered By Podbean To have this weekly podcast

Don't Stretch To Far!

2011-03-15T21:33:00.000-05:00

2011-03-13T20:51:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. It seems that we spend too much time dissatisfied about who we are and about what we are doing. As a result, we are unable to do either of them really well. Life is entirely too short to spend any more time in the throws of dissatisfaction and indecision. It is time for a break out. It is Time to begin again.Get Clarity

Representing Yourself

2011-03-06T21:40:00.003-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Wrap your mind around this thought: "How you represent you is a presentation that must be worthy of who you are." Allen shares a few thoughts for you to keep in mind as you continue to travel through life.The world only knows you through what you represent yourself to be.Without your explanation, they will have to define

Give it Up!

2011-03-02T09:13:00.004-06:00

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How Do You Feel?

2011-02-20T16:48:00.003-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. There are some questions yo need to be careful about asking particulary whe you are talking to yourself. "How do you feel?" is one of those questions. You simply cannot afford to let feelings define you. Here are some thoughts you may want to consider:Choose not let how you feel determine who you are or how you are.Don't

Who is On Your Team?

2011-02-16T08:00:00.001-06:00

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Alignment

2011-02-15T21:00:00.001-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Alignment is a buzz word being heard and used in the corporate community these days. What happens if you are mis-aligned? Here are some thoughts for you about your own alignment. Are your priorities clear?Are your expectations of others clear and confirmed?How much time do you spend trying to change and choose for

Who do you think you are?

2011-02-09T10:02:00.004-06:00

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How Are You Doing?

2011-02-07T19:33:00.003-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. One month down and eleven to go. The question is, "Is it going the way you intended for it to go?" Allen share a few things you might want to think through before you get any deeper into 2011.Don't let the unexpected define your year.Don't let resistance depress you.Don't let success mislead you.

What's So Super About The Super Bowl?

2011-02-02T08:00:00.000-06:00

I live in Arlington, Texas. Contrary to continued references to Dallas, the Super Bowl this year is in Arlington. It is a big deal. It is purported to be the biggest party in the world. I can't believe that is what makes it super. I know it is supposed to bring in over 100,000 people into Cowboy Stadium which means Jerry thinks it is super. Millions of dollars will be

What's Your Game?

2011-01-30T16:42:00.004-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. So, What is your game? Allen shares a few thoughts with us this week about stepping on your stage.Play like the world is watching because it isChoose to be the best you can beBe ImpressiveLook for opportunityPlay for an encore Podcast Powered By Podbean To have this weekly podcast

Creating Performance Freedom

2011-01-26T08:00:00.001-06:00

Creative performance requires freedom. It requires relaxation. Anxiety and stress militate against creativity. The question is how prepared are you to perform? Think about it.Performance takes many forms. Daily living represents one level of performance. Shakespeare got it right. The world is a stage and you are one of the players. How prepared are you each day to live? The purpose and

Preparation and Freedom

2011-01-23T21:20:00.002-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. How prepared are you to live this week? As you anticipate what you have before you, how much time and effort have you put into making it happen? This week Allen shares a few thoughts on how preparation creates freedom you need to perform.How prepared are you for the presentation you have to make?How much time do you

Give it Time

2011-01-19T08:00:00.000-06:00

Take it to the next level. Move up a notch. Both thoughts express the same desire. Improvement. Development. The aspiration is fairly common. The accomplishment is not so common. It is not easy to change the status quo. It is far more natural to leave things the way they are. There are many, if not most, who never achieve what they envision for themselves. There are reasons why and they can

Stay Committed!

2011-01-17T09:49:00.005-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. So, how did last week go for you? Did you get back to the gym? Did you have to fight the tendency to quit? Doing what you have committed to yourself to do is exceptional. For those of us who didn't fair quite so well, it si time right now to begin again. Here are a few thoughts to help stay in gear.Prepare the night

Get Ready!

2011-01-12T08:00:00.000-06:00

It is 2011. The second decade of the 21st century has begun. Whether you like it or not, it is time. It is not too late to get ready. Unfortunately, it will happen with or without your readiness. There is a big difference between being ready and not being ready when it begins to roll. Think about it.If you are not ready you will begin, behind. From the very beginning, you will be playing

Stay Strong!

2011-01-09T14:09:00.003-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Well, the first week is over. Now we will see who keeps showing up at the gym. So, Allen shares some things to think about as you move into this second week of 2011.Choose Again.Don't Lead With Your Feelings.Re-Connect With Your Feelings.Re-Connect With Your Reason Why.Find a Partner.Create Ways to Celebrate.

The Interferences Are Coming!

2011-01-02T20:36:00.002-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This is one thing about which I am sure. you will face interferences this year. The question is what do you intend to do about it.Your plans will collide with the plans of others.Others will not be in full support of your plans.Time will be limited.You will not feel like doing the things you know you need to do.

Being Alone

2010-12-22T07:38:00.000-06:00

Being alone is not a natural arrangement for human beings. We were all born into this world in unique relationship to another. If an infant is abandoned, it is considered to be a travesty. It isn't right. The same is true for adults. You never grow out of the need for relationship. While there is something to be said for being able to enjoy "alone time", it is a short term fix not a long term

One Another

2010-12-20T19:28:00.003-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Holiday time is here and the New Year is near. This week Allen wants to share with you some thoughts to remember this year.PeaceCommunityJoyLoveTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power Search "Tappe talk" and then subscribe.To comment on this blog, click on the

The Mystery of Christmas

2010-12-15T06:49:00.000-06:00

"It is the best of times and it is the worst of times". This great opening line is probably the best way to describe what Christmas has become. It seems to be happening every year. The music begins not long after Halloween and it fills the air just in time for Black Friday. Shoppers line up and then run over one another to get to the best deals in the store. Retailers declare Christmas a success

The Christmas Story

2010-12-12T13:30:00.002-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week Allen wants to challenge you to live the Christmas story.Keep It SimpleCelebrateListen to GodGiveLove Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power Search "Tappe talk" and then subscribe.To

Breaking Patterns

2010-12-08T07:41:00.000-06:00

There are some behavioral patterns that need to be broken. They aren't really habits. They don't necessarily involve addictions or compulsions. They are simply behaviors you have learned along the way. In many ways, they have become your greatest limiting factor because they represent behavior that has worked for you in the past. The truth is there are some patterns you need to break in order to

2010-12-07T18:55:00.001-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power Search "Tappe talk" and then subscribe.To comment on this blog, click on the COMMENTS link located directly below. I would love to hear your thoughts!

For Whom Are You Thankful?

2010-12-01T08:00:00.000-06:00

I am writing this blog on Thanksgiving Day. It is early in the morning and I am enjoying a little quiet time for reflection. When I begin to think about all of the things for which I am thankful I realize how long the list really is. I also believe, at least for me this year, it isn't the right question. It isn't "things" that occupy my mind on this meaningful day. It is the people in my world.

Who Is Your Team?

2010-11-28T20:08:00.002-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Team is anyone you depend upon for your success. This is a perfect time of year to take a personal inventory of things. The new year is just around the corner. Allen shares his Thanksgiving thoughts for you:Humble yourself...Remind yourself...Motivate yourself...Celebrate yourself...

Getting Rid of Junk

2010-11-24T08:27:00.000-06:00

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Taking Care of Business

2010-11-22T00:10:00.003-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Everyone is in the people business. No matter what business your in you are dealing with people. Allen spends time this week discussing taking care of people. Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power Search "

What Do You Represent?

2010-11-17T07:02:00.000-06:00

When people see you coming what to they see? What do they expect? You make a relational statement through the life you live every day. You carry a message people have to experience. It is important for you to stay aware of the impact you have because you do have one. You can represent something people look forward to experiencing or you can represent something people would rather avoid. What you

2010-11-15T08:00:00.000-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. There is one thing for sure. You will make a difference today. Whether you want to or not, you will. This week Allen challenges you to make a positive difference on purpose.Choose to be awareChoose to be positiveChoose to askChoose to equip Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast

Change or Transformation?

2010-11-10T08:00:00.000-06:00

Everyone hates change. I hear it everywhere I go. Change is resisted. In reality, it is feared. It takes you to a place you do not want to go - the unknown. I am convinced change is so unpopular because it is something happening to you. Life is happening to you and you don't like it. But, what if you were happening to life as opposed to it happening to you? You cannot do anything about change. It

The Power of Transformation

2010-11-08T08:00:00.000-06:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Change is going to happen. You CAN count on it! The question Allen spends exploring this week both in Wednesday's blog and in this podcast is, "Is it going to be a product of your choice or is it going to be chosen for you?"The Choice is yours.The Difference is Powerful.The Alternative is Frustrating.The Possibility is

Expectations

2010-11-03T08:00:00.001-05:00

If you ever find yourself challenged in a relationship, you can always know it involves expectations. It is just as true in your personal life as it is in business. Someone is expecting something from the relationship they are not getting. Disappointment sets in which can quickly turn into disillusionment and descend further into depression. The truth is expectations represent a powerful link

2010-11-02T07:32:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by the Tappegroup. Read Allen's follow up blog this Wednesday on Expectations. How often do you really get your expectations exceeded? This week Allen shares a few thoughts on a more serious look on expectations in Life. Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your

Go Deep!

2010-10-27T08:00:00.001-05:00

How deep do you go with the questions of life? Questions like “who” are you as a human being? What “responsibilities” are yours because of your life definition? How well do you “represent” yourself in the roles you play? If you have no real answer to those questions then it is time for you to go deeper into the challenges of living.You need to provide definition for your life. Most people allow

What is Your Plan?

2010-10-25T07:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. How do you plan on executing your plan this 2011 year? Do you have one? Allen shares a few suggestions this week on creating your plan. Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power Search "Tappe talk" and then subscribe.To

Identity, Agreement, and Relationship

2010-10-13T08:00:00.000-05:00

Culture is the life experience created by people. The culture can be purposed or it might just be happening. The difference in the two options will be found in the result experienced. Where culture is being purposed, the experience can be one of passionate engagement. In the case of life happening to you, it is a victim's experience. It all begins with who you believe you are. It is your sense of

Making Life Work

2010-10-11T08:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Relationships are a challenge. Allen shares some thoughts this week on creating connection and finding agreemeint in the midst of our diversity.Never take agreement for granted.Always begin with them.Be willing to come their way.Continue to clarify expectations.Stay humble. Powered by

What Can You Do?

2010-10-06T08:00:00.000-05:00

This past week, I have had a recurring conversation. It has revolved around the problem of being overwhelmed. People who believe they have more to do than they can get done. They live everyday with the frustration of knowing they did not get "it" done. Life has become depressing. They have lost confidence and energy in the process. Can you relate? If you can then you, no doubt, feel the weight of

Say No!

2010-10-03T17:26:00.001-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. In a day and time when choices and opportunities are endless sometimes the best answer is "NO!" Allen shares his thoughts this week on the importance of that answer. Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and

Make a Difference!

2010-09-29T08:00:00.000-05:00

Is it better to talk about it or really do something about it? About what you might ask. About anything important to you. How much do you invest of yourself in really making a difference in this life? I think your calendar and your checkbook will tell you a lot. What you treasure will be found in the time and financial history you are writing. Check it out. I do believe talking is important.

Don't Forget!

2010-09-27T08:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Have you ever experienced a week where you end up leaving a trail of things behind you? Allen spends some time on the thought of NOT forgetting:Slow down.Stay present.Allot more time. Powered by Podbean.com To have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the

Who Qualifies?

2010-09-22T06:30:00.002-05:00

You have probably noticed you have alot of people in your world. And, with all of those people, you have roles and responsibilities to go along with them. Take a few moments to write down the names of those people who are most consistently present in your life. Now that you have a little more clarity, who chooses how your life is going to go? How is all going to fit together? It is your life. You

Take the Lead

2010-09-15T07:46:00.000-05:00

Leadership is a big topic in the marketplace today. Initiatives abound. Mission and vision statements are being rewritten in order to include the new leadership emphasis. Of course, some organizations have been talking about it for a long time. People are being encouraged to lead, take responsibility, and own their performance. Accountability is a big word in our new economy. The word is

Who is Leading Who?

2010-09-13T08:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Every person is born into this world comes with influence. In that sense, every person born into the world is a leader. Allen shares a few thoughts this week on how to increase the amount of influence you have.Ask questions about them and about things of interest to them.Ask open ended questions.Ask follow up

What Are You Selling?

2010-09-08T08:00:00.000-05:00

Are people buying what you are selling? If they don’t think what you are selling will fix something, or answer a question, for them then they won’t be buying even if they are kind enough to show some interest. So, how relevant and valuable are you to the world around you from their point of view. Remember, perception is everything.Selling a product, tangible or intangible, requires recognition

What's the Problem?

2010-09-06T08:00:00.004-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. There may not be a more relevant question to be asking today than "what's the problem?". Allen shares some suggestions for getting in touch with the needs of the world around you.Read More...Ask Those Who Know...Create Beta Sites...Ask Those Who Are Not Interested...Invest in Yourself...

Where Are We?

2010-09-01T08:00:00.002-05:00

If you are reading this blog, you are here. I saw a moving recently where the defining actor kept repeating this thought at strategic moments throughout the film, “We are here but where are we?” I love the reflection because, on one hand, it states the obvious. On the other, he asks a significant question. We have survived but where are we now?There is so much to be said about the journey we

Be Where You Are

2010-08-30T08:00:00.005-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Allen shares a few thoughts on what he believes we need to recognize about our new and developing world.The "World is Flat"...War is our reality....Learning is not an option...There are no guarantees... Powered by Podbean.comTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player

Authentically You

2010-08-25T08:00:00.001-05:00

Culture is typically spoken of in terms of the collective. It involves reflection upon value systems and language. Culture can also be spoken of, however, from a very individual and personal vantage point. In fact, I really believe any discussion of collective culture begins with examining the culture of its individual parts. Value systems receive significant attention in corporate and community

The Real You

2010-08-23T08:00:00.003-05:00

Welcome to TappeTalk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. How important is authenticity to the dynamic of trust? Allen spends time discussing "The Real You".Values are not situationalThe real you needs to be enoughAuthenticity requires less energyTrust is critical Powered by Podbean.comTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes

Core Fitness

2010-08-18T08:00:00.000-05:00

Core fitness is the new cry in the field of physical exercise. Yoga, Pilate's, P90x, you name it. Each form of exercise is calling for it. Focus upon core fitness and establish the foundation for your physical health. Interestingly enough, I believe core fitness is the missing piece in the realm of philosophical fitness as well. Core fitness, philosophically speaking, establishes the foundation

"Fit, Really?"

2010-08-16T08:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week, Allen's blog, will be focused upon the significance of "core fitness" in you life. Allen has believed for years that our greatest challenge in life revolves around the challenge of philosophical fitness. In this podcast, Allen wants to challenge you with what he means by philosophical fitness.You believe in

Presence

2010-08-11T08:00:00.000-05:00

Why is change such an anathema to so many? Why does change, so often, suffer the reversal of regression even after we have experienced it? There is no question change is resisted if not rejected by the majority of people in this world. Unless it is forced upon us, we would just as soon pass. Then, there are those who engage it and then suffer the disappointment of going back to where they once

Lasting Change

2010-08-09T08:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Change has always been a reality in life. Allen's purpose in this week's podcast is to make some practical suggestions for engaging in the process positively and on purpose.Don't underestimate the challenge.Don't engage it on your own.Don't wait too long.Don't miss the opportunity. Powered by

The Power of One

2010-08-04T08:00:00.000-05:00

I realize I am borrowing a title from at least one book and a motion picture. I can't help it. For what I have in mind in this blog, it just really works. Some of you will have to indulge me as I create a context for my thoughts. It is about the Texas Rangers. I am not talking about the law enforcement group. I am talking about the major league baseball team. You don't have to love

Be the One

2010-08-02T08:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week Allen invites you to think with him about what might be holding you back from making that great next step forward.New Exposure.Take the Risk.Invest in it.Reorganize for it.Plan for it. Powered by Podbean.comTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power

Creating Memories

2010-07-28T07:54:00.002-05:00

I am presently sitting in a coffee shop in Jackson, Mississippi. I am on a road trip with my wife, daughter, and granddaughter. We have just left Duluth, Georgia where we connected with my grandson. He competed in the National Junior Judo Competition. He travelled with his team. They had a great tournament. This isn't a diary entry or travel log. It is the account of a memory creation.I

2010-07-27T11:12:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week Allen spends time sharing some thoughts from his heart to yours.Pay attentionInvest the timeMake the SacrificeLighten UpBe thankfulPowered by Podbean.comTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power Search "Tappe talk" and then subscribe.To comment on this

What Are You Thinking?

2010-07-21T08:00:00.000-05:00

How consciously do you prepare for living each day? How prepared are you for dealing with things in life that typically provoke anger in you? How about the people and situations that frustrate and create stress in you? Stress and anger are created from the inside, out. What you think about any given thing will define how you manage it. Will you react or respond? Will emotion or reason play

What Do You Fear?

2010-07-19T08:00:00.001-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. What are you putting into your mind? This week Allen focuses on replacing "fear" with strength and thoughts that will produce response.Think first.Think new thoughts.Think positively.Think purposefully.Think thankfully. Powered by Podbean.comTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the

Familiar Words, Fresh Thoughts

2010-07-14T08:00:00.001-05:00

The 21st century has brought a new brand of change into our lives. Today, we are not talking about small adjustments. We are facing redefinition. Our jobs are being redefined. Many of them are disappearing altogether. The economy nationally and worldwide is being redefined. Purchasing power is escaping the middle and finding its way into the hands of a privileged few. Understanding of family

Redefinition

2010-07-12T00:00:00.003-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. The world is rapidly redefining itself. So, the question for our time today is "How do we respond?" Allen shares some thoughts that hopefully you will give serious consideration:Don't rely upon past success for contemporary strategy.Don't allow your fear of failure to define your present performance.Don't refuse to embrace

Being Right Is Wrong

2010-07-07T08:00:00.000-05:00

The most important art to master in this life is the art of human relationship. Building and sustaining relationships is our greatest life priority. Unfortunately, history reflects a story of broken and challenged relationships. Nations war. Marriages struggle. Customers complain. The list goes on and on. Understanding the force dividing people is vital to our achieving the harmony we seek. The

Believe It

2010-07-05T08:00:00.001-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. What we choose to believe is the greatest challenge we face in this life. Why we do what we do is the critical beginning for all performance and all relationship to this life. So, this week Allen ask us to take a few minutes and think about a few basic questions.Who is Right?What is Right?When is Right?How is Right?

Success Defined

2010-06-30T00:00:00.001-05:00

Success is clearly a personal concept. Its definition is as diverse as the human population. There is, however, one dynamic found in any definition of success you might encounter: the recognition and conveyance of value. Someone creates and communicates value in which someone else is willing to invest. When a person represents value and that value is recognized and respected through the invested

Don't Out Run Yourself

2010-06-28T00:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Through out the past 38 years of working in the American marketplace, Allen has heard an ever increasing cry for "balance" in life. This week Allen shares his thoughts on painting the picture you were meant to createReconfirm your commitment to mankind.Respect the life you have been given.Relate personally to the people in

Discover Your Pace

2010-06-23T00:00:00.000-05:00

In a world of disagreement, there is one thing upon which we can agree. The world is spinning faster and faster like some kind of runaway train. Jumping off could prove to be fatal, however, staying on board has its own share of danger. The challenge we face is the responsibility for discovering our pace and embracing it.You don't want to be a statistic in this life. Studies are reporting an

Map for Success

2010-06-21T00:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. It is all about relationship! This week Allen spends some time on the core of relationships, understanding, learning, and serving.Know your customers.Clarify your offering.Make the commitment.Create strategic direction.Deliver with integrity. Powered by Podbean.comTo have this weekly podcast

The Power of Recognition

2010-06-16T08:00:00.000-05:00

Understanding the power of recognition is essential to powerfully influencing the world around you. Far from manipulation, recognition is about actively showing respect for the actions of others. By celebrating the value of what you see, you are validating them and the choices they are making. Otherwise, how will they know?So, what difference does it make? It makes none if you are content with

Make a Real Difference

2010-06-14T11:47:00.002-05:00

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. This week Allen encourages you to accept a challenge. This week he challenges you to pay attention intentionally.See peopleRespect themRespond to themPraise themEncourage them Powered by Podbean.comTo have this weekly podcast automatically upload to your mp3 player visit the iTunes Store and Power

Beginning Again, Again

2010-06-09T06:56:00.000-05:00

Half of this year is almost gone. It is hard to believe. But, I said the same thing last year at this time and the year before. As "halftime" approaches, it is time to think about things you have done well in the first half and things you need to adjust or change altogether for the second. It is important to begin with intention. It is equally important, however, to "begin again" with integrity.