Making comparisons is tricky business. On one hand, it can be unsettling and unhealthy. On the other hand, it can break unnecessary shackles that keep you from growing forward to new opportunities.
When I was young I didn't realize I was poor until I met someone who wasn't. I also didn't realize there was anything wrong with it. After that comparative realization, life seemed to get a little more complicated. Appearances took on new importance. I became aware of the fact that patches and tears weren't stylish. My life was never the same in a self-conscious sort of way.
On the other hand, I once thought I was pretty good in tennis. I beat everyone I played. Then, I played someone who taught me that I really wasn't very good at all. He provided me not only an alternative, but a superlative, point of view. My life, and my game, were never the same. For that I will forever be thankful.
So, comparisons are part of our journey. If we use them and they don't use us, then life has a wonderful rhythm. If we let them use us and we don't choose to use them, then life can become a frustrating and fearful experience. The path seems pretty clear to me for now at least. How about you? Blessings.
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