Do you give much thought to how you present things? You will if your read Nudge by
Thaler and Sunstein. In this book, the authors do a great job of
helping us see how easily people can be influenced simply by the
arrangement of things presented to them. When I read this
book, I began to think about the subtle balance between influence and
manipulation. It also caused me to think about how I go about
presenting things passionately and yet responsibly.
To
begin with, I do believe it is important to be reminded of the power we
all have as human beings. We have the power to influence the choices of
others simply by the way we communicate ourselves to them. It happens
everyday. It is happening to us and we are happening to others. I don't
believe most people believe they have that kind of influence but the
truth is always there in potential. So, on one hand, it is a terrific
thing to realize. I have power to influence. So, how am I using it or am
I using it at all?
You see, I believe the
realization prompts both opportunity and responsibility. I have the
opportunity to influence people every single day in some way. I can
influence the way they think and the choices they make simply through
they way I present myself and my thoughts. It would seem then that
clarity becomes pretty important. Am I influencing people with
confidence and purpose? It gives me reason to give more thought to the
way I approach each day. I have great potential in everyday and I can't
afford to waste it because of personal confusion.
At
the same time, I have significant responsibility for what and how I
present. Manipulation happens when I remove the freedom of choice from
others because of the way I present. So, on one hand, I have the
responsibility to present my passion and convictions about products or
services or thoughts because they deserve to be heard. People don't know
what or how I think unless I present it to them. At the same time, what
they think needs to be respected and protected in the process. There
really is an art to achieving that delicate balance.
So,
take the time to think about your presentation today. Make it with
passion and purpose. Present others with the opportunity to hear your
perspective. It can change the choices they make so approach them and
life responsibly. Just give them a nudge. Help them choose. Do well!
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