Sunday, November 28, 2010

Who Is Your Team?

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Team is anyone you depend upon for your success. This is a perfect time of year to take a personal inventory of things. The new year is just around the corner. Allen shares his Thanksgiving thoughts for you:
  • Humble yourself...
  • Remind yourself...
  • Motivate yourself...
  • Celebrate yourself...



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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Getting Rid of Junk

We are having a garage sale at my house. This is the second day. I am not a garage sale guy. This is my wife’s project. I just play a support role. It really is about cleaning house. After awhile, you have to do something with junk you have collected over the years. Actually, you have to do something with the things you don’t use any longer. It is amazing how true the old saying is, “One man’s junk is another man’s treasure.” In fact, I think it is true from several vantage points.

Yesterday, I watched as people hauled away our junk with smiles on their faces. It made me think maybe we should have reconsidered selling some of those things. Were they really junk? And then I thought about “employees”. I really did. Not all employees, just the ones people are letting go. There are a lot of people today who probably need to lose their jobs but I wonder how many of them have been thrown into the junk category prematurely. It seems like the people who hire them next think they have really hit the jackpot. In reality, they probably have.

Once you begin to consider something as junk, you disrespect it. You put it in places where it can’t function. It gets lost. If left too long, it really gets mistreated. I think the same is true with some employees. They have been put into a category they can’t do anything about. Managers have them in the “junk” category and they can’t change their perception. What if they were treated with more respect? What if they were really challenged to perform? What if expectations were clarified? Think about it.

Here is the thought. If you aren’t going to give them a chance or if you don’t think they deserve a chance then you do need to get rid of them. On the other hand, you might want to give them one more look. Maybe there is treasure you have missed. Collins talked about getting the wrong people off of the bus and getting the right people in the right seats. I think he is right. I just think sometimes you can wait too long to have a garage sale and sometimes you can get rid of things irresponsibly. I am personally going to take a closer look at what we are putting up for sale. That is if my wife will let me. Do well, my friends.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Taking Care of Business

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Everyone is in the people business. No matter what business your in you are dealing with people. Allen spends time this week discussing taking care of people.









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Wednesday, November 17, 2010

What Do You Represent?

When people see you coming what to they see? What do they expect? You make a relational statement through the life you live every day. You carry a message people have to experience. It is important for you to stay aware of the impact you have because you do have one. You can represent something people look forward to experiencing or you can represent something people would rather avoid. What you represent is up to you. It is your choice.

Think about it. Why would you not want to be a blessing in the lives of people in your world? Why would you not want to represent a positive presence in their lives? I believe there are a couple of possibilities. The first one is probably the most frequent reality. You just aren't aware of others. You know they are there. They just aren't your priority. What you are doing, what you are needing, what you are thinking is your focus. You simply are not present for them. You are present for yourself.

It is also possible you really don't want to make a positive difference in the lives of others. For some reason, you want others to be as miserable as you are. Maybe you have suffered the abuse of others and so you think others should have the same opportunity through you. While I choose to think this must represent the minority reality, I do believe it represents a consequential one.

I want you to be awake and aware of the difference you represent. Don't think you are invisible. Don't think others aren't impacted by you. They are. Think about the people in your world. Maybe it is time for you to think about how you can make a positive difference in their lives. Maybe you need to make the difference in their lives you didn't experience in yours. What you choose will make all the difference not only in their lives but in yours as well. Do it for them. Do it for you. Just do it. Do well my friends.

Monday, November 15, 2010

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. There is one thing for sure. You will make a difference today. Whether you want to or not, you will. This week Allen challenges you to make a positive difference on purpose.
  • Choose to be aware
  • Choose to be positive
  • Choose to ask
  • Choose to equip






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Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Change or Transformation?

Everyone hates change. I hear it everywhere I go. Change is resisted. In reality, it is feared. It takes you to a place you do not want to go - the unknown. I am convinced change is so unpopular because it is something happening to you. Life is happening to you and you don't like it. But, what if you were happening to life as opposed to it happening to you? You cannot do anything about change. It is going to happen. It is your reality. However, you do have a choice to make. Change or transformation?

Change happening to you makes you a victim. You happening to the challenge of change makes you a leader. Leaders choose transformation over change. Transformation is something you engineer. Change is something being engineered for you. Resistance to change is a reaction. Choosing to transform yourself as an answer to change is a response.

Change is coming from the outside, in. Transformation comes from the inside, out. You have to work at managing change. Transformation, on the other hand, is about creating changes in harmony with the vision you have for yourself. It is about you choosing to change.

Transformation is purposed. I have a faith that embraces the transforming work of God in my life. Through His Spirit, He transforms me into the image of His Son. He works in me from the inside, out. I get to cooperate with what He is creating in and through me. I believe He intends this arrangement for every human being.

Faith takes you to another level of thought with regard to transformation. It gives you confidence in the face of fear. It gives you security in the face of the unknown. You have to choose how you approach the transformational work you choose for your life. I highly recommend faith as a graceful and powerful companion.

There is a difference between change an transformation. Taking responsibility for the choice you make between the two is all yours. One way it works on you. The other way it works in you. Bring God into your picture and you have Him working in and through you. Bottom line, change does not have to be feared. It just needs to be put into new perspective. Do well, my friends.

Monday, November 8, 2010

The Power of Transformation

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. Change is going to happen. You CAN count on it! The question Allen spends exploring this week both in Wednesday's blog and in this podcast is, "Is it going to be a product of your choice or is it going to be chosen for you?"
  • The Choice is yours.
  • The Difference is Powerful.
  • The Alternative is Frustrating.
  • The Possibility is incredible.



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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Expectations

If you ever find yourself challenged in a relationship, you can always know it involves expectations. It is just as true in your personal life as it is in business. Someone is expecting something from the relationship they are not getting. Disappointment sets in which can quickly turn into disillusionment and descend further into depression. The truth is expectations represent a powerful link to effective communication and relationship development.

It all begins with recognition. Recognize the people in your life as the place to begin. What are their expectations of you? What are their expectations of the relationship? You know yours. It is their expectations you don't know unless you ask them. Even then it can't be one time done. Expectations shift and change without any notice at all. They are fluid be their very nature. You have to keep them clarified.

Expectations cannot be assumed. You may have a job description in place. You may think you have some kind of positional understanding in a relationship. Expectations cannot be captured through positional designation. Nor are they clarified through the most complete job description. What is to be done or from what position it is to be done are both easy to identify and communicate. Expectations, on the otherhand, have to do with how you, or they, want things done. What are the preferences? Agreement has to be reached and then reached again and then reached again. Expectations tend to morph.

One more thing, expectations don't have to make sense. They don't. A person might have expectations of you in a job that are totally unreasonable. They might not even be possible. You cannot do everything despite what some might think. Expectations in a relationship can be the same. If another person expects you to secure them in life that is a car wreck waiting to happen. It is not healthy for you or for them to let that lurk between you. Expectations have to be discussed, clarified, and agreement must ultimately be reached.

Expectations make the powerful difference in any relationship. Customers, marriages, managers, coaches, doctors, and children require your attention with regard to keeping them clarified. If you don't do it, who will? Them? Come on. Do well, my friends. Lead on.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by the Tappegroup. Read Allen's follow up blog this Wednesday on Expectations. How often do you really get your expectations exceeded? This week Allen shares a few thoughts on a more serious look on expectations in Life.







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