Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Agreement

It seems they are having a hard time reaching agreement in Washington. Although the consequences of not achieving agreement are dire to say the least, opposing parties remained locked into their positions. The problem seems to me to lie in a lack of understanding of the concept of agreement.


To begin with, agreement can never be achieved as long as two parties remain opposed to one another. Agreement begins with a mutual and common vision. You would think officials elected to serve the best interests of this country could agree upon that commonness.


With a common vision, acceptance and respect for mutual differences must be acknowledged. Democrats see government as the answer to our economic woes. Republicans see free enterprise and the private sector as the answer. Short term the answer will be costly. Both participating parties need to sacrifice their long term goals in order to focus upon the short term need for survival and new beginning now.


The best of both parties is needed in order to achieve the greater need now. The discipline and strength of government must join the creativity and commitment of the business community to regain our footing and begin the process of rebuilding.


The root word for agreement in the Greek language is sumpheneo. When building the English language "sumpheneo" was borrowed from the Greeks and transliterated to create our word, symphony. Symphonic harmony is what we are missing in Washington. Too many of our leaders insist upon singing solos. Too many seem to not have the capacity to listen for harmonic opportunity.


So, I pray for a symphony in Washington. I pray for a conductor to come forth who can inspire the different parts in harmony. The time for solos is over. Actively listening must begin. The sweet sound of agreement will be welcomed. In the meantime, do well my friends.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Living by Agreement

Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group.The truth is agreement is the most important thought we should have each day. For self centered human beings, agreement seems impossible. I want to offer several thoughts to challenge you this week as you seek to achieve agreement with the world around you.
  1. Ask & Listen...
  2. Respect & Recognize...
  3. Communicate & Lead...
  4. Compromise & Contribute...
  5. Praise & Celebrate...
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Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Coincidences?

This week I had a small traffic accident. Actually, a young woman backed into my car while we were waiting in line for a snow cone. There was no real harm done. The young woman who hit me was gracious and anxious to make things right. I appreciated her spirit and I was also grateful for the fact that everyone was well. It turned out she was new to our community and trying to get a new life started with her children.


So, what a coincidence? A young woman happens to run into a father of three daughters who is particularly sensitive to grandchildren. As a result of our encounter, no matter how frustrating, I have a new friend. We were actually able to bring our families together. Hopefully, we will be able to help her settle into this new life chapter.


I just don't believe in coincidences. Things like I experienced can just as easily be seen as purposed opportunity. I know I have missed a lot of opportunities in my life because I was not looking for them. Realizing that lack of intention or strategy does not create coincidence is a purposed philosophy.

Pay attention this week. Things will happen you will not expect. Look for opportunity instead of inconvenience. You might just find a new friend. It might just back into you. Do well, my friends.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Stay Awake!











Welcome to Tappe Talk, a Purposed Connection podcast by The Tappe Group. It has been sometime since I have said anything about our human tendency to sleepwalk. In my blog this week, I have written about the philosophical delusion of coincidence. It is so easy to declare things to be coincidental that carry real potential, if not, purpose. So, I want to challenge you this week to stay intentionally awake.
  • Pray about it!
  • Imagine it!
  • Think about it!
  • Affirm it!



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Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Freedom?

This week marks the beginning of the second half of the calendar year. It began for many of us with a day of worship and then many of us launched into the week with a holiday. It was "Independence Day", July 4th. It happens every year. This year, I want to give it new and more personal meaning. In fact, I want it to be contemporary to my life and to my year. I want to move into the second half of this year "free" from many things I allowed to influence me negatively in the first half. Maybe you will want to join me.

I want to be free of the discussion of what might be happening in this economy. I am sick of hearing all of the pundits giving their rendition of when things are going to change. They have missed it over and over again. It is as if we are supposed to stay in a holding pattern of some sort until they get it right. It is depressing and I am through with the discussion. I choose to embrace what I have as the context in which I have the freedom to create. Any discussion otherwise is a waste of time.

I want to be free of depressing and negative talk about how bad things are. It has really become an epidemic. Washington, health care, unemployment, education, yesterday, today and on and on it seems to go. It is time to declare freedom over pessimistic reflections. It is time to be thankful for what I have been given. Think about it. Do you agree?

I want to be free of the fear of not having it right. I am being constantly told I don't have the right "number" in place in order to enjoy retiring in my future. I am hearing constantly that the prospects for tomorrow are bleak. It seems there is no hope. I have awakened a few nights sweating over the threat of it all. I am through with it. My hope is built on something else entirely and it is not based on man made projections.

So, I am sure you have gotten the point. I want to live a revolutionary second half of 2011 built in hope and optimism. I want to claim the freedom I have been given to choose. I want to create energy and opportunity for myself and for others. I am free. We have even been given a holiday to prove it. What do you think? Do well, my friends!

Monday, July 4, 2011

Welcome to Tappe Talk a Purposed Connection podcast by the Tappe Group. This country has been built upon revolution. Actively changing things we see are not working for us is our heritage. I want to challenge you with a few things I believe that I believe need to be included even if I am the only revolutionary involved. This is your official invitation to join me.

  1. I intend to think for myself.
  2. I Intend to be focused upon what I can do.
  3. I intend to help people choose.
  4. I intend to eliminate ruts in my life.



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Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Impressions

Making an impression is not an option. You will make one. You are making one. Is it the impression you intend to make? Being certain of your answer to that question is the key to any success you might hope to achieve. You never have a second chance to make a first impression so the one you are making had best be with great intention.

Knowing the people in your world is critical to making the impression you need to make. Impressions are the product of the vision of another. What they see and hear is what matters. Make sure you are choosing a language that will connect, language with which they are familiar.

Begin with others. Leadership is influence. Your influence will ultimately be a product of the impression you make. Communication is the product of both verbal and non-verbal efforts. Impressions are the product of communication. You are constantly communicating a message. Are you well representing yourself?

Relationships can never be taken for granted. They have to be created. What you are communicating is fundamental to the creation you are experiencing. Have you made the connections you need to and want to make in this life? Purposed connection requires preparation and performance.

Children make impressions that are, for the most part, unintentional. As adults we have to take responsibility for the life we are creating. If you want new people in your life and you want to make an intentional connection with them then make the impression you intend to make. Dress to connect. Speak to connect. Listen to connect. Begin with them. Find the verbal and non-verbal language that works and engage it. The impression you make is the place to begin. Be impressive. Do well, my friends.